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What lips my lips have kissed, and where, and why, I have forgotten, and what arms have lain under my head till morning; but the rain is full of ghosts tonight, that tap and sigh upon the glass and listen for reply. And in my heart there stirs a quiet pain for unremembered lads that not again will turn to me at midnight with a cry.
There may be times in our lives when relationships - whether they are romances, friendships, or family ties - hit a bump in the road and seem to fade away, leaving us wondering what happened and why? If it's been a long time and it's clear to you that the relationship is over, but there was no final talk or last goodbye, you might be in need of some closure so that you can move on, and put that relationship behind you.
1. Define your loose ends. What is it that lingers in you that prevents you from moving on? What residual emotions are still tying you to this person? Usually it's some form of anger or guilt - anger over what a person did to you, and you don't feel they were held accountable to it, or guilt over what you did (or didn't do) to (or for) someone else, and your resulting sense of regret.
2. Forgive. The fastest way to free yourself from an enemy and all associated negativity is to forgive. Untie the bindings and loose yourself from that person's ugliness. Your hatred has tied you to the person responsible for your pain. Your forgiveness enables you to start walking away from him or her and the pain. When your enemy and his or her evil actions come to mind, send him or her a blessing. Hope the best for him or her. The first 15 - or 150 - times you try this, the "blessing" may feel contrived, empty, and even hypocritical but keep trying. Eventually, it will become a new habit and soon thereafter, the anger and pain that has burned in your heart will evaporate.
3. Apologize. If you feel guilt or shame, if you are the one who needs forgiveness, then apologize. But it's not as simple as saying or thinking "I'm sorry." Grab a pen and paper and write a full-blown apology, keeping the following in mind:
* There is no excuse. Do not try to think of or offer one. An apology with an excuse is not an apology. Take full responsibility for what you did. * Make it a point to avoid using the word "but". ("I am sorry, but..." means "I am not sorry.") * Do not say "I'm sorry you feel that way" or "I'm sorry if you were offended" --it makes it seem like you are blaming the other person for feeling a certain way, and is not a real apology.
* Think about what caused you to make the offense. Find the underlying problem, describe it to the person (as an explanation, not an excuse), and tell them what you intend to do to rectify that problem so that you can avoid this mistake in the future.
4. Have a symbolic ceremony. People still hold funerals for the deceased whose bodies were never found, and you can still have a formal way to say goodbye to relationships that were never resolved. Gather all of the things that remind you of this person and burn them, or donate them to charity. Give a eulogy to the relationship, and say it out loud.
5. Write a story. Think back to when your relationship with this person began, and document it from beginning to end. This may be very painful, but it will give you a broader perspective. When you get to the final chapter, finish off on a positive note and write "The End". If you're writing in a notebook, close it forcefully, take a deep breath, and put it on a bookshelf. If you wrote on looseleaf papers, fold them, put them in an envelope, and seal it. You may choose to keep the story, or you may choose to shred it or burn it. The very act of documenting your relationship and closing the book, however, will help you find closure emotionally.
6. Begin a new chapter. You'll never be able to erase your memory of this person, but you can use the experience to better yourself and to help others. If you wronged someone, resolve never to make the same mistake again, and take it a step further: help others avoid making the same mistake you did. If you were a victim, reach out to other victims, and teach others how to avoid the wrongdoing that you faced. Make the end of your relationship with that person a turning point in your life. Start moving in a new direction.
Hame To Apnone Luta, Gero Me Kahan Dum Tha, Jaha Meri Kasti Dubi, Waha Pani Kam Tha.
Jindgi Ka Mela Tha Janha Her Koi Apna Tha Per Na Jaane Kis Ki Kami Thi
Chalte Chalte Ranho Me Tum Jo Mil Gaye Har Kami Puri Ho Gayee
Aisa Laga Jaise Koi Khoi Hui Cheez Hame Mil Gaye
Khone Ka Gham To Malum Nahi Tha Per Pane Ki Khusi Mehsus Huyi
Khuda Na Khasta Bichhadna Bhi Pade Too Hame Intzar Rahega Tumhara
Kayamat Tak Kayamat Par Bhi Tum Na Ayee To Bhi Koi Shikva Nahi Hame Tum Se
Aise Aana Mayyat Pe Meri Jaise Shadi Karne Aayee Ho Hamse
Kuch Tohfa Dena Chaho To Apne Sare Gham Ka Fasana Chhod Jana Mere Pass
Aasu Ka Waha Koi Kaam Nahi Jaha Rehta Ho Yaar Mera Aana Bhi Ho To Banke Khusi Aana Sath Tum Yar Ke Mere
Aaj Ek Faisla Mere Naam Kar Gaye Meri Jinndgi Ki Tanha Shaam Kar Gaye
De Gaye Kasam Hame Bhulane Ka Khud Ko Aur Chupe Ansuo Ko Sare Aam Kar Gaye
Tohfa Diya Hame Tanha Raton Ka Aur Jahkmo Se Hame Tamam Kar Gaye
Kahte Hai Ye Akhiri Din Hai Apni Mulakat Ka Aur Bhul Ja Tu Hamko Ye Paigam De Gaye
Aaj Ye Faisla Mere Naam Kar Gaye Meri Jindgi Ki Har Tanha Saam Kar Gaye
Ankho Me Rah Ke Jo Hasate The Har Pal Aaj Hoton Pe Dard Bhara Jaam De Gaye
Chod diya hamara sath to koi gam nahi. Bhul jayenge aap hume, bhulne wale hum nahi... Aapse mulakat na ho pai to koi baat nahi, aapki ek yaad mulakat se kum nahi
In love nothing is too much, you can never be tired of making each other feel special.When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.Being in love is the most beautiful feeling and when you wanna express your appreciation but fall short of words, then romantic love e cards, I Love You Cards and Love you eCards are the best option to go for.The road to a loved one's house is never too long. But there are moments in life when it seems long and you miss him or her.When words fall short, send love kisses to your true love and make him/ her feel special.Love has the power to drive you crazy, to sweep you off your feet.If earth laughs through flowers then love laughs through roses! Rose is synonymous with love!Love when shared multiplies itself, and to do that you need words and emotions. Send love greetings, romantic love cards, love e cards, i love you cards, love you ecards to your sweetheart.
Falling in Love? Here is a beautiful love poem on falling in love. When you are with someone and your palm sweat, your heart beats faster then usual and your voice get stuck in your chest, you are likely to be in love. LOVE is the most addictive thing in life.. even people, who are not having it, wish to experience it and share it with others as well. Love is all about pain, and torture right? Yes it is...love is torture death of self. If you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there.Then it's true love.
Falling And yet not afraid. I'm falling into the unknown, And yet I welcome it. I'm falling faster and faster, And yet I laugh. I'm falling into the depths of his eyes, And they're beautiful. I'm floating now, As I look upon him and see what's been missing all this time. I'm floating in space, in clouds, in heaven. I see him smile and I shoot into the sky like bright fireworks, I see him laugh and I can't help but embrace the wonder. He takes my hand in his, And I nearly burst into a billion stars. He kisses me gently, And I melt and burn with satisfaction. He holds me and never lets go, Yet it never seems enough. He's like an addiction, Like the air I need to breathe, He's what I'm falling into, And am happy to do so. He has eyes only for me, And it warms my heart into a fire. I'm falling into this bliss, Falling, Floating, Flying, and there's no end. I'm doing so and he's doing it with me. Because we're in love, Falling forever in love together. A journey with no end, Yet why would I want an end? Falling into the sea of soul mates, Falling into the unknown of love, Floating in a cloudless sky, And yet he manages to make it seem alright. As long as he has me, and I him; Falling no longer seems so terrifying. For falling means I have gone high, And the longer I fall the higher I have flown.
Diwali is the festive season of light, the season of Divine power.Here is a beautiful Diwali Love Poem, a Diwali poem to show love and to thank our heavenly GOD, the spirit of power.
Season of Lights Dunes of vapors from crackers rise, Engulf, as odorous airs resound Effusing joys to all abound Pearls of gleams in these autumn nights Adorn our lives else trite With sparklers that motley skies As soaring spirits of powder wander Let us thank the heavenly might, In this festive season of lights.
Do you ever been searching for romance tips for men to impress your loved one? Here I have found some nice romance tips for men to impress your lady. Hopefully these romance tips for men will definitely help you to get some ideas on how to impress a woman.
How to Create Romantic Feelings in a Woman --by Ron Louis & David Copeland
To seduce a woman, you must take her into another world, a special world where only the two of you exist, a romantic world, a poetic world.
Sometimes this happens automatically with a woman: if you've ever fallen in love, you remember what it's like to feel like you are the only two people who've ever existed. You probably also remembered that, in that state, she really wanted sex. A lot.
If you haven't ever felt that, don't despair - by following these simple guidelines, you can learn to create those special feelings. It's your responsibility, if you want to get laid. So how do you do it?
# Keep on the lookout for romantic ideas or situations.
You can train your mind to always be looking for ways that little romantic moments can be created.
The other day a friend of ours was at a Chinese restaurant, and got the fortune, "Take the next opportunity you see - it will be wonderful" in his fortune cookie. Seeing an attractive woman sitting alone, he wrote his name and phone number on the back of the fortune, and as he left stopped at her table and said, "You look lonely here... perhaps this fortune will cheer you up. By the way, I think you look beautiful." She smiled and accepted the fortune and he smiled and left. Two days later she called him and they now have a date planned.
This effortless introduction worked because it created a small, special moment in her otherwise busy, stressful day. He was appreciating her. He was doing something romantic.
You can tell if an idea is romantic by asking yourself, "Would a woman look back on it as incredibly special?" Our friend knew that the fortune cookie was a tale a woman would gladly tell about how she met her boyfriend. So it was romantic, made her feel special, and it worked.
# Look like you put thought into it.
Women feel special, just like anybody does, if they think someone has done some preparation just for them. Cooking a meal, wrapping a little present, or hand-making a card for her will all make her feel like you are sitting around thinking of ways to delight her.
The key here is to do things that give the appearance that you are thinking of her. When you do things to make her feel special and appreciated it will increase her desire to put out for you.
# Do something special and "out of the ordinary."
Don't take a woman to the same place you'd go with buddies if you want sex. Take her someplace out of the ordinary. A river- front cafe in a nearby small town, a walk in the woods where you've previously and secretly stashed a bottle of champagne, two glasses and a blanket you can "discover" together are all examples of "out of the ordinary" events. Even art films (if she likes that kind of thing) or museums can be out-of-the-ordinary events. You can be an "out of the ordinary" man if you know some love poetry by heart. That will make her feel very special.
# Focus on the details.
Women want the "little things," so you should make sure every little thing is right when you are seducing a woman. This means flowers, new candles just lit for the first time, clean linens, the works. Everything is clean, nothing is sloppy. Romance is in the details, and you must have them right in order to succeed.
Just as a businessman is always looking for new situations that can make money, a "man's man" is always looking for new situations that can create romantic feelings. If you take on this practice you'll make her feel special, and you will get sex. Make woman laugh and fall in love. Click Here!
Why is love so much pain ? Sitting on the roof starring at the stars Thinking to myself how could I have fell for someone so hard When all I was told was lies Now that I think about it ,it makes me cry
[chorus] To know someone I gave my heart to Just tore my heart apart A love that is endless Why did this love have to start Feeling the love I have for you Just rushes through my veins Why does love have to be so much pain
Memories no one can take away The pain that I feel each and everyday And it is going to be hard ,but I will pull myself through A real time that a get over loving you
To know someone I gave my heart to Just tore my heart apart A love that is endless Why did this love have to start Feeling the love I have for you Just rushes through my veins Why does love have to be so much pain
So much pain . .. So many nights so many tears I’ve cried (cried) No one to be by my side Stuck with misery and pain you are the one to blame Cause it hurts to know ...
To know someone I gave my heart to Just tore my heart apart A love that is endless Why did this love have to start Feeling the love I have for you Just rushes through my veins Why does love have to be so much pain
(why does love have to be so much pain) So much pain (so much pain) Oh so much pain
The most important thing in life is to decide what the most important thing is for you. Dream on it. Live with passion. Love without expectations. Feel the infinite flowing in you. Create the Devin in you. The thing is yours. Live the life Love the life Laugh...
Moth: I gave you my life. Flame: I allowed you to kiss me.
- these two lines from the twentieth century Sufi Master Hazrat Inayat Khan explains the meaning of love between God and humankind through the simple and ancient Sufi metaphor of moth being consumed in the flame of the candle."
Being in Love is a slow kiss goodnight... it's anticipation. Being in Love is flirting outrageously and still remembering that the person at your side is not obligated to do anything...it's respect. Being in Love is an imperfection in your self not bothering you... it's acceptance. Being in Love is passing up an opportunity because the time isn't right yet...it's patience. Being in Love is a back massage that starts above the hairline and ends around the insoles... it's exploration. Being in Love does not have to say, "lets make love," because you know what the other person wants... it understands. Being in Love is being given an honest chance to say no when you thought you were committed... it's consideration. Being in Love is both of you remembering protection... it's responsibility. Being in Love is saying the perfect phrase to make a solemn embrace dissolve into giggles... it's humor. Being in Love is being told "stop and I'll kill you..." it's desire. Being in Love is reviewing the damage to your living room and realizing personal effects are strewn in a clockwise pattern from the front door the to bedroom... it's abandonment. Being in Love is seeing what your love really looks like for the first time... it's truth. Being in Love is knowing what time it is and not caring... it's joy. Being in Love is the arms around you tightening their embrace... it's ecstasy. Being in Love is seeing a new side of a person you thought you knew... it's renewal. Being in Love is telling a person if you have to leave, you will let them sleep, and being told they would rather be woken... it's tenderness. Being in Love is waking up to find the subject of the dream you were having asleep on your shoulder... it's where fantasy meets reality. Being in Love is being there to wake your lover slowly... it's sensuousness. Being in Love belatedly knows why you bothered to buy a queen-sized bed years ago... it's practicality. Being in Love is two people only taking up a third of a queen-sized bed... it's closeness. Being in Love knows you gave the extra set of keys to your apartment to the right person... its trust. Being in Love is saying good-bye and knowing you will be back by mutual consent... its faith. Being in Love is stretching your arms and discovering the real meaning of the word "sore" ...it's a lesson in human frailty. Being in Love is opening your medicine cabinet finding your tube of toothpaste turned into a pretzel... it's adaptation. Being in Love is sitting at the window, looking out and remembering who you were with the night before... it's reflection. Being in Love is hearing the weather forecast for a thunderstorm and wishing you could spend it in bed with your lover... it's loneliness. Being in Love ...is sometimes a story that will never be told... it's personal.
"One must learn to love oneself before one can learn to love others."
When something isn't going right, the only thing you want to do is discover the quickest and most effective way to fix the problem. This is the premise of our self-help guide. Inside you'll find the tools you need to pin-point exactly what your problem area may be and the solutions for making it right.
We spend so much of our time waiting to be loved, hoping love will find us, searching, yearning for that special love. Feeling empty and lost without it. Wanting someone to give us love and fill us up. Unfortunately, that’s not usually how life works. You will draw to you exactly what you create in life, and what you believe you are worthy of. So loving yourself can create love in your life.
Take a realistic evaluation of yourself. Be honest with yourself about how valuable you believe you are as a person. The way you see yourself and treat yourself is the very way others will see you and treat you. Do you see yourself as valuable, worthy of the gift of love? More importantly, do you treat yourself lovingly and as a valuable being? It’s ok to be truthful with yourself, it may not be pretty! Awareness is the first and more powerful step on the path to change!
Forgive yourself if you ever believe you aren't worthy of love. After all, there were probably things in your childhood or previous years that created that belief for you. It simply isn’t true; every being on this planet is worthy of love, after all, love is what we are here for, it’s what it’s all about. Say to yourself now; “I forgive myself for believing that I was not worthy of love.” Go look in a mirror and say it out loud to yourself, look yourself right in the eyes and say it like you mean it. Go on, I’ll wait.
Post this affirmation up someplace where you will see it each and every day; "I have the courage to believe that I am worthy of love." Read it out loud, every day, at least once, ideally at least ten times each time you notice it. Sticky notes are fabulous for affirmations.
Take action and make those words real. Begin loving and valuing yourself. It is said that you cannot give away what you do not have. So, if you are not able to love and accept yourself unconditionally, how in the world are you going to love and accept anyone else unconditionally? Much less accept that love in return from them?
Remember that love is not a feeling, it is a choice! Make the choice to love yourself. After all, who deserves it more? The more loving you are to yourself, the more loving you will be able to be to everyone around you. Family and friends will especially benefit from this. Make a choice to come from a place of love for yourself and for everyone who is important in your life.
Think about what you need to fill that emptiness inside, that place that is longing for love. What specifically do you need? Find the answer and then give it to yourself. No one is more capable of loving you, and giving you exactly what you need than you are! When you learn how to fulfill yourself in that way, you stop searching for it outside of yourself and you suddenly begin attracting it to you! You change yourself from a sponge to a magnet! People see you radiating self love and they are drawn to you!
Keep a journal. Write about your experiences, good and bad. When you write down your good experiences allow yourself to feel those good feelings again. When you remember the bad experiences, allow yourself to feel pride. Pride because you faced a challenge in your life and you are here today to write about it, which must mean you are a survivor and a fighter. Tell yourself, "I know pain, but I've yet to be introduced to surrender." Keep on keeping on.