Love poems,Sweet Love Poem : All Mine

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"All Mine"

All the stars may shine bright
All the clouds may be white
But when you smile
Ohh how I feel so good
That I can hardly wait

To hold you
Enfold you
Never enough
Render your heart to me

All mine.......

Who is GOD Of Love : Cupid

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All of us know the god of love as a small winged boy. In early images, actually he was often shown as a beautifully formed, full-grown man. He is always believed to be armed with love arrows. He also is sometimes shown riding a dolphin or lion.

The Story behind the love god:

According to some there are two Eroses. The elder one is the early god, and the other is cupid (the eternally young son of Aphrodite). Eros is the cause of the birth of all the immortal gods and goddesses. Eros is also considered to be the most beautiful and youngest of all gods.

As the legend goes Eros or commonly known as cupid falls in love with Psyche. He is a very radiant god and so for her safety she says she will never look at his face. So he came to see her only in the night. But everyone doubts his beauty as she is so scared to see his face. One night to prove everyone wrong Psyche lights a candle to see cupid's face and accidentally drops a few hot oil drops on cupid. This burns him and he flies away in physical pain and also the grief that she has doubted his beauty.

Aphrodite, who is his mom, is furious over the incident and over the concealed relationship. While Cupid is recovering from the injury, Aphrodite puts extraordinarily difficult situations for Psyche to face to get rid of her from cupid life. But soon Cupid recovers, and comes to the rescue of cupid, and they marry. So the love god lives happily ever after.

Factors for real love

What is real love?

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This piece of poetry describes the exact characteristics of real love. These qualities can be found in all truly loving relationships. The problem is actually with trying to search “love” in our daily lives. It is often found that most of us don’t look for these characteristics in a person. Instead, we look at physical appearance, wealth and fame. These are not the qualities of true love.

What is real love?

Real love could be said to extend beyond mere infatuation or crush which individuals develop at some point in time. It is a concept which encompasses the feeling of 'infatuation' and requires a higher degree of understanding and application!
A few things could be said to define a loose definition for real love although it may vary from one individual to another.

It is about the right person

Real love could be said to be about finding the right person. In other words, falling in love may not be real love. For your likes and dislikes may not align with your 'other half'. As a result, one could say that real love is finding the right person in which case there is a kind of equilibrium between the two individuals.

Knowing the other person

Real love requires a good and thorough understanding of the opposite person you are getting involved with. This is a tad different from the 'falling in love' and getting carried away. Such feelings diffuse after a while and it boils to the compatibility aspect between two individuals.

Knowing about the person's personality and character are so important. To identify the characteristics you could look at the aspects which draw you to a guy or a girl. If the list is long then you know that you know a lot about him /her and if the list is short then probably you need to know the person a bit more! This aspect would surface a quintessential one with regard to the sustenance of relationship. So if you were to get into a relationship with someone, it is always better to know him better!

Real Love isn't sex

It would be fair to say that sex is a part of the whole experience called 'real love'. But to identify sex as a determinant would be a miscalculation as this aspect is momentary in nature. As time goes by, this aspect too would lose steam and what would remain is the foundation- that of understanding and appreciating each other's emotions.

Love is a commitment.

Although feelings will accompany love, and although sex will be a part of marriage, a lasting, you cannot base a healthy relationship on these things. In the long and winding journey of life, infatuation, sex and other such details will slowly vaporize and all that would be left in the relationship is commitment and understanding between the partners. There are several other factors which could go into the definition of 'real love' but then again they would vary from person to person!