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What lips my lips have kissed, and where, and why, I have forgotten, and what arms have lain under my head till morning; but the rain is full of ghosts tonight, that tap and sigh upon the glass and listen for reply. And in my heart there stirs a quiet pain for unremembered lads that not again will turn to me at midnight with a cry.
There may be times in our lives when relationships - whether they are romances, friendships, or family ties - hit a bump in the road and seem to fade away, leaving us wondering what happened and why? If it's been a long time and it's clear to you that the relationship is over, but there was no final talk or last goodbye, you might be in need of some closure so that you can move on, and put that relationship behind you.
1. Define your loose ends. What is it that lingers in you that prevents you from moving on? What residual emotions are still tying you to this person? Usually it's some form of anger or guilt - anger over what a person did to you, and you don't feel they were held accountable to it, or guilt over what you did (or didn't do) to (or for) someone else, and your resulting sense of regret.
2. Forgive. The fastest way to free yourself from an enemy and all associated negativity is to forgive. Untie the bindings and loose yourself from that person's ugliness. Your hatred has tied you to the person responsible for your pain. Your forgiveness enables you to start walking away from him or her and the pain. When your enemy and his or her evil actions come to mind, send him or her a blessing. Hope the best for him or her. The first 15 - or 150 - times you try this, the "blessing" may feel contrived, empty, and even hypocritical but keep trying. Eventually, it will become a new habit and soon thereafter, the anger and pain that has burned in your heart will evaporate.
3. Apologize. If you feel guilt or shame, if you are the one who needs forgiveness, then apologize. But it's not as simple as saying or thinking "I'm sorry." Grab a pen and paper and write a full-blown apology, keeping the following in mind:
* There is no excuse. Do not try to think of or offer one. An apology with an excuse is not an apology. Take full responsibility for what you did. * Make it a point to avoid using the word "but". ("I am sorry, but..." means "I am not sorry.") * Do not say "I'm sorry you feel that way" or "I'm sorry if you were offended" --it makes it seem like you are blaming the other person for feeling a certain way, and is not a real apology.
* Think about what caused you to make the offense. Find the underlying problem, describe it to the person (as an explanation, not an excuse), and tell them what you intend to do to rectify that problem so that you can avoid this mistake in the future.
4. Have a symbolic ceremony. People still hold funerals for the deceased whose bodies were never found, and you can still have a formal way to say goodbye to relationships that were never resolved. Gather all of the things that remind you of this person and burn them, or donate them to charity. Give a eulogy to the relationship, and say it out loud.
5. Write a story. Think back to when your relationship with this person began, and document it from beginning to end. This may be very painful, but it will give you a broader perspective. When you get to the final chapter, finish off on a positive note and write "The End". If you're writing in a notebook, close it forcefully, take a deep breath, and put it on a bookshelf. If you wrote on looseleaf papers, fold them, put them in an envelope, and seal it. You may choose to keep the story, or you may choose to shred it or burn it. The very act of documenting your relationship and closing the book, however, will help you find closure emotionally.
6. Begin a new chapter. You'll never be able to erase your memory of this person, but you can use the experience to better yourself and to help others. If you wronged someone, resolve never to make the same mistake again, and take it a step further: help others avoid making the same mistake you did. If you were a victim, reach out to other victims, and teach others how to avoid the wrongdoing that you faced. Make the end of your relationship with that person a turning point in your life. Start moving in a new direction.
Hame To Apnone Luta, Gero Me Kahan Dum Tha, Jaha Meri Kasti Dubi, Waha Pani Kam Tha.
Jindgi Ka Mela Tha Janha Her Koi Apna Tha Per Na Jaane Kis Ki Kami Thi
Chalte Chalte Ranho Me Tum Jo Mil Gaye Har Kami Puri Ho Gayee
Aisa Laga Jaise Koi Khoi Hui Cheez Hame Mil Gaye
Khone Ka Gham To Malum Nahi Tha Per Pane Ki Khusi Mehsus Huyi
Khuda Na Khasta Bichhadna Bhi Pade Too Hame Intzar Rahega Tumhara
Kayamat Tak Kayamat Par Bhi Tum Na Ayee To Bhi Koi Shikva Nahi Hame Tum Se
Aise Aana Mayyat Pe Meri Jaise Shadi Karne Aayee Ho Hamse
Kuch Tohfa Dena Chaho To Apne Sare Gham Ka Fasana Chhod Jana Mere Pass
Aasu Ka Waha Koi Kaam Nahi Jaha Rehta Ho Yaar Mera Aana Bhi Ho To Banke Khusi Aana Sath Tum Yar Ke Mere
Aaj Ek Faisla Mere Naam Kar Gaye Meri Jinndgi Ki Tanha Shaam Kar Gaye
De Gaye Kasam Hame Bhulane Ka Khud Ko Aur Chupe Ansuo Ko Sare Aam Kar Gaye
Tohfa Diya Hame Tanha Raton Ka Aur Jahkmo Se Hame Tamam Kar Gaye
Kahte Hai Ye Akhiri Din Hai Apni Mulakat Ka Aur Bhul Ja Tu Hamko Ye Paigam De Gaye
Aaj Ye Faisla Mere Naam Kar Gaye Meri Jindgi Ki Har Tanha Saam Kar Gaye
Ankho Me Rah Ke Jo Hasate The Har Pal Aaj Hoton Pe Dard Bhara Jaam De Gaye
Chod diya hamara sath to koi gam nahi. Bhul jayenge aap hume, bhulne wale hum nahi... Aapse mulakat na ho pai to koi baat nahi, aapki ek yaad mulakat se kum nahi
In love nothing is too much, you can never be tired of making each other feel special.When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.Being in love is the most beautiful feeling and when you wanna express your appreciation but fall short of words, then romantic love e cards, I Love You Cards and Love you eCards are the best option to go for.The road to a loved one's house is never too long. But there are moments in life when it seems long and you miss him or her.When words fall short, send love kisses to your true love and make him/ her feel special.Love has the power to drive you crazy, to sweep you off your feet.If earth laughs through flowers then love laughs through roses! Rose is synonymous with love!Love when shared multiplies itself, and to do that you need words and emotions. Send love greetings, romantic love cards, love e cards, i love you cards, love you ecards to your sweetheart.
Falling in Love? Here is a beautiful love poem on falling in love. When you are with someone and your palm sweat, your heart beats faster then usual and your voice get stuck in your chest, you are likely to be in love. LOVE is the most addictive thing in life.. even people, who are not having it, wish to experience it and share it with others as well. Love is all about pain, and torture right? Yes it is...love is torture death of self. If you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there.Then it's true love.
Falling And yet not afraid. I'm falling into the unknown, And yet I welcome it. I'm falling faster and faster, And yet I laugh. I'm falling into the depths of his eyes, And they're beautiful. I'm floating now, As I look upon him and see what's been missing all this time. I'm floating in space, in clouds, in heaven. I see him smile and I shoot into the sky like bright fireworks, I see him laugh and I can't help but embrace the wonder. He takes my hand in his, And I nearly burst into a billion stars. He kisses me gently, And I melt and burn with satisfaction. He holds me and never lets go, Yet it never seems enough. He's like an addiction, Like the air I need to breathe, He's what I'm falling into, And am happy to do so. He has eyes only for me, And it warms my heart into a fire. I'm falling into this bliss, Falling, Floating, Flying, and there's no end. I'm doing so and he's doing it with me. Because we're in love, Falling forever in love together. A journey with no end, Yet why would I want an end? Falling into the sea of soul mates, Falling into the unknown of love, Floating in a cloudless sky, And yet he manages to make it seem alright. As long as he has me, and I him; Falling no longer seems so terrifying. For falling means I have gone high, And the longer I fall the higher I have flown.
Diwali is the festive season of light, the season of Divine power.Here is a beautiful Diwali Love Poem, a Diwali poem to show love and to thank our heavenly GOD, the spirit of power.
Season of Lights Dunes of vapors from crackers rise, Engulf, as odorous airs resound Effusing joys to all abound Pearls of gleams in these autumn nights Adorn our lives else trite With sparklers that motley skies As soaring spirits of powder wander Let us thank the heavenly might, In this festive season of lights.
Do you ever been searching for romance tips for men to impress your loved one? Here I have found some nice romance tips for men to impress your lady. Hopefully these romance tips for men will definitely help you to get some ideas on how to impress a woman.
How to Create Romantic Feelings in a Woman --by Ron Louis & David Copeland
To seduce a woman, you must take her into another world, a special world where only the two of you exist, a romantic world, a poetic world.
Sometimes this happens automatically with a woman: if you've ever fallen in love, you remember what it's like to feel like you are the only two people who've ever existed. You probably also remembered that, in that state, she really wanted sex. A lot.
If you haven't ever felt that, don't despair - by following these simple guidelines, you can learn to create those special feelings. It's your responsibility, if you want to get laid. So how do you do it?
# Keep on the lookout for romantic ideas or situations.
You can train your mind to always be looking for ways that little romantic moments can be created.
The other day a friend of ours was at a Chinese restaurant, and got the fortune, "Take the next opportunity you see - it will be wonderful" in his fortune cookie. Seeing an attractive woman sitting alone, he wrote his name and phone number on the back of the fortune, and as he left stopped at her table and said, "You look lonely here... perhaps this fortune will cheer you up. By the way, I think you look beautiful." She smiled and accepted the fortune and he smiled and left. Two days later she called him and they now have a date planned.
This effortless introduction worked because it created a small, special moment in her otherwise busy, stressful day. He was appreciating her. He was doing something romantic.
You can tell if an idea is romantic by asking yourself, "Would a woman look back on it as incredibly special?" Our friend knew that the fortune cookie was a tale a woman would gladly tell about how she met her boyfriend. So it was romantic, made her feel special, and it worked.
# Look like you put thought into it.
Women feel special, just like anybody does, if they think someone has done some preparation just for them. Cooking a meal, wrapping a little present, or hand-making a card for her will all make her feel like you are sitting around thinking of ways to delight her.
The key here is to do things that give the appearance that you are thinking of her. When you do things to make her feel special and appreciated it will increase her desire to put out for you.
# Do something special and "out of the ordinary."
Don't take a woman to the same place you'd go with buddies if you want sex. Take her someplace out of the ordinary. A river- front cafe in a nearby small town, a walk in the woods where you've previously and secretly stashed a bottle of champagne, two glasses and a blanket you can "discover" together are all examples of "out of the ordinary" events. Even art films (if she likes that kind of thing) or museums can be out-of-the-ordinary events. You can be an "out of the ordinary" man if you know some love poetry by heart. That will make her feel very special.
# Focus on the details.
Women want the "little things," so you should make sure every little thing is right when you are seducing a woman. This means flowers, new candles just lit for the first time, clean linens, the works. Everything is clean, nothing is sloppy. Romance is in the details, and you must have them right in order to succeed.
Just as a businessman is always looking for new situations that can make money, a "man's man" is always looking for new situations that can create romantic feelings. If you take on this practice you'll make her feel special, and you will get sex. Make woman laugh and fall in love. Click Here!
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