Bengali Love poem - Finding You
Galib-er kobitar koli
Jotobar osfute boli
Ablushi bhandar phanke
Totobar khunjechi tomake!!
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Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Valentine's day : Do you know facts and figures about valentines day
Do you know that, according to legend, Valentine's Day was started to Saint Valentine, a Roman saint who was executed on February 14th, 270 A.D.? St. Valentine was killed for secretly marrying couples in defiance of an order of the Roman emperor. The emperor had forbidden marriage after Roman men began refusing conscription in order to stay home with their wives.
Do you know that Cupid was the son of Venus, the Roman god of love? Cupid is a mainstay of Valentine's Day marketing campaigns, featured prominently on greeting cards and boxes of chocolates.
Do you know that 65 percent of American households send or exchange greeting cards? More than 180 million Valentine's cards are sent by mail, with another 700 million homemade and store-bought Valentine's exchanged at school and work.
Do you know that Hallmark sells over 1,300 different styles of Valentine's Day cards? February 14th is the second most popular card-giving holiday. Christmas is the first most popular.
Do you know that exchanging Valentine's cards likely began in America as early as the 1700s?
The first mass-produced Valentine's Day card was sold in the 1840s by Esther Howland, a Massachusetts native. She originally sold hand-made, lace cards for as much as $35 per card.
Do you know that the oldest known Valentine's Day card is on display at a London museum? The card was sent in 1415 by the Duke of Orleans to his wife in France. The Duke was imprisoned at the time in the Tower of London.
Do you know that 38 percent of Americans buy candy for their loved ones on Valentines Day? The first heart-shaped box of candy was sold in 1868 by Richard Cadbury.
Do you know that chocolate has long been considered an aphrodisiac? The Aztec emperor Montezuma drank ground cocoa beans to increase his sexual prowess. In Mesoamerican marriage ceremonies, the couple shared a ritual cup of cocoa, which was believed to increase their luck in love.
Do you know that 32 percent of Americans purchase flowers on Valentine's Day? Three-quarters of those who buy the flowers are men.
Do you know that the red rose was believed to be the favorite flower of Venus, the Roman god of love and the father of Cupid?
Do you know that Americans buy and send more than 110 million roses for Valentine's Day? California is the leading domestic producer of roses, although the majority of the ones sold on Valentine's Day are imported from South America.
Do you know that one in 10 Americans buy jewelry as a Valentine's Day gift? In 2005, February jewelry sales topped $2.4 billion.
Do you know that on Valentine's Day, 1876, Alexander Graham Bell applied for a patent on his invention, the telephone, which he called "an improvement in telegraphy"? If you can't be with your loved one on Valentine's Day, you can "reach out and touch someone" -- thanks to Mr. Bell.
Do you know that the expression "wear your heart on your sleeve" comes from a Middle Ages Valentine's Day tradition? Young men and women would draw the name of their Valentine from a bowl. They would wear their selected name on their sleeves for one week.
Do you know that Valentine's Day was first declared an official holiday by King Henry VIII of England in 1537? Today Valentine's Day is celebrated on February 14th in the United Kingdom, the United States, Canada, Mexico, France and Australia.
Do you know that in Colombia, Valentines Day is celebrated in September? And Brazil, Valentine's Day, otherwise known as the Day of the Enamored, is on June 12. In Israel, Tu B'Av is the holiday of love, celebrated in late summer.
Do you know that Cupid was the son of Venus, the Roman god of love? Cupid is a mainstay of Valentine's Day marketing campaigns, featured prominently on greeting cards and boxes of chocolates.
Do you know that 65 percent of American households send or exchange greeting cards? More than 180 million Valentine's cards are sent by mail, with another 700 million homemade and store-bought Valentine's exchanged at school and work.
Do you know that Hallmark sells over 1,300 different styles of Valentine's Day cards? February 14th is the second most popular card-giving holiday. Christmas is the first most popular.
Do you know that exchanging Valentine's cards likely began in America as early as the 1700s?
The first mass-produced Valentine's Day card was sold in the 1840s by Esther Howland, a Massachusetts native. She originally sold hand-made, lace cards for as much as $35 per card.
Do you know that the oldest known Valentine's Day card is on display at a London museum? The card was sent in 1415 by the Duke of Orleans to his wife in France. The Duke was imprisoned at the time in the Tower of London.
Do you know that 38 percent of Americans buy candy for their loved ones on Valentines Day? The first heart-shaped box of candy was sold in 1868 by Richard Cadbury.
Do you know that chocolate has long been considered an aphrodisiac? The Aztec emperor Montezuma drank ground cocoa beans to increase his sexual prowess. In Mesoamerican marriage ceremonies, the couple shared a ritual cup of cocoa, which was believed to increase their luck in love.
Do you know that 32 percent of Americans purchase flowers on Valentine's Day? Three-quarters of those who buy the flowers are men.
Do you know that the red rose was believed to be the favorite flower of Venus, the Roman god of love and the father of Cupid?
Do you know that Americans buy and send more than 110 million roses for Valentine's Day? California is the leading domestic producer of roses, although the majority of the ones sold on Valentine's Day are imported from South America.
Do you know that one in 10 Americans buy jewelry as a Valentine's Day gift? In 2005, February jewelry sales topped $2.4 billion.
Do you know that on Valentine's Day, 1876, Alexander Graham Bell applied for a patent on his invention, the telephone, which he called "an improvement in telegraphy"? If you can't be with your loved one on Valentine's Day, you can "reach out and touch someone" -- thanks to Mr. Bell.
Do you know that the expression "wear your heart on your sleeve" comes from a Middle Ages Valentine's Day tradition? Young men and women would draw the name of their Valentine from a bowl. They would wear their selected name on their sleeves for one week.
Do you know that Valentine's Day was first declared an official holiday by King Henry VIII of England in 1537? Today Valentine's Day is celebrated on February 14th in the United Kingdom, the United States, Canada, Mexico, France and Australia.
Do you know that in Colombia, Valentines Day is celebrated in September? And Brazil, Valentine's Day, otherwise known as the Day of the Enamored, is on June 12. In Israel, Tu B'Av is the holiday of love, celebrated in late summer.
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Love Poems - Harvesting stars
Flares tonight's thoughts
with bold accents and an accomplice,
transporting pores fragrance
a love which enshrines proud.
A wave of excitement growing in
holding the banner of feeling,
Presure caricias traveling with kisses
marking the territory of your body.
The tic tac Rauda declines in its audacity
of wanting to sleep the sweet melody,
sublime song whispered on the Moon
is a "Te adoro" that passion aviva.Mágica adventure, scarlet hearts
toys in the middle of our paradise,
dreaming souls never get tired ...
Continue walking reaping stars.
with bold accents and an accomplice,
transporting pores fragrance
a love which enshrines proud.
A wave of excitement growing in
holding the banner of feeling,
Presure caricias traveling with kisses
marking the territory of your body.
The tic tac Rauda declines in its audacity
of wanting to sleep the sweet melody,
sublime song whispered on the Moon
is a "Te adoro" that passion aviva.Mágica adventure, scarlet hearts
toys in the middle of our paradise,
dreaming souls never get tired ...
Continue walking reaping stars.
Monday, January 26, 2009
Valentines Day Ideas, Valentine's Day Gift Ideas
Valentines Day is on 14th February. It's the time to celebrate for couples and lovers, a time to exchange valentine's day gifts. Valentine's Day will be here before you know it! This year it falls on a Saturday, so it's the perfect day to plan a fun day with your man or family. For some extra bonding time this year, here are a couple fun Valentine's Day ideas, valentines day gift ideas.
David Yurman is always a safe a bet! Available at Neiman Marcus dot com.
David Yurman is always a safe a bet! Available at Neiman Marcus dot com.
I'm in love with Tory Burch Skinny Jeans in White. The medallion on the back pocket sealed the deal for me! Available at Tory Burch dot com.
Orchid Pink Revas for V-day.
Or, if Pink isn't your thing. I'm in love with the Tangerine orange too! Revas (in both colors + many more) available for $195 at Neiman Marcus dot com.
Have you tried Zella active wear? So comfy and it's Pink! This one is called the "She Girl" Jacket and it can be purchased at Nordstrom.
If your Sweetheart is in the market for a new Mac Book Pro... the brand new 17" Eco-Friendly model is on pre-sale now!! Isn't it SO pretty?
Friday, November 14, 2008
Romantic Love Poem - What lips my lips have kissed
What lips my lips have kissed,
and where, and why,
I have forgotten,
and what arms have lain
under my head till morning;
but the rain is full of ghosts tonight,
that tap and sigh
upon the glass and listen for reply.
And in my heart there stirs a quiet pain
for unremembered lads that not again
will turn to me at midnight with a cry.
.....Edna St. Vincent Millay
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
6 Ways To Getting Closure in Relationships
There may be times in our lives when relationships - whether they are romances, friendships, or family ties - hit a bump in the road and seem to fade away, leaving us wondering what happened and why? If it's been a long time and it's clear to you that the relationship is over, but there was no final talk or last goodbye, you might be in need of some closure so that you can move on, and put that relationship behind you.
1. Define your loose ends. What is it that lingers in you that prevents you from moving on? What residual emotions are still tying you to this person? Usually it's some form of anger or guilt - anger over what a person did to you, and you don't feel they were held accountable to it, or guilt over what you did (or didn't do) to (or for) someone else, and your resulting sense of regret.
2. Forgive. The fastest way to free yourself from an enemy and all associated negativity is to forgive. Untie the bindings and loose yourself from that person's ugliness. Your hatred has tied you to the person responsible for your pain. Your forgiveness enables you to start walking away from him or her and the pain. When your enemy and his or her evil actions come to mind, send him or her a blessing. Hope the best for him or her. The first 15 - or 150 - times you try this, the "blessing" may feel contrived, empty, and even hypocritical but keep trying. Eventually, it will become a new habit and soon thereafter, the anger and pain that has burned in your heart will evaporate.
3. Apologize. If you feel guilt or shame, if you are the one who needs forgiveness, then apologize. But it's not as simple as saying or thinking "I'm sorry." Grab a pen and paper and write a full-blown apology, keeping the following in mind:
* There is no excuse. Do not try to think of or offer one. An apology with an excuse is not an apology. Take full responsibility for what you did.
* Make it a point to avoid using the word "but". ("I am sorry, but..." means "I am not sorry.")
* Do not say "I'm sorry you feel that way" or "I'm sorry if you were offended" --it makes it seem like you are blaming the other person for feeling a certain way, and is not a real apology.
* Think about what caused you to make the offense. Find the underlying problem, describe it to the person (as an explanation, not an excuse), and tell them what you intend to do to rectify that problem so that you can avoid this mistake in the future.
4. Have a symbolic ceremony. People still hold funerals for the deceased whose bodies were never found, and you can still have a formal way to say goodbye to relationships that were never resolved. Gather all of the things that remind you of this person and burn them, or donate them to charity. Give a eulogy to the relationship, and say it out loud.
5. Write a story. Think back to when your relationship with this person began, and document it from beginning to end. This may be very painful, but it will give you a broader perspective. When you get to the final chapter, finish off on a positive note and write "The End". If you're writing in a notebook, close it forcefully, take a deep breath, and put it on a bookshelf. If you wrote on looseleaf papers, fold them, put them in an envelope, and seal it. You may choose to keep the story, or you may choose to shred it or burn it. The very act of documenting your relationship and closing the book, however, will help you find closure emotionally.
6. Begin a new chapter. You'll never be able to erase your memory of this person, but you can use the experience to better yourself and to help others. If you wronged someone, resolve never to make the same mistake again, and take it a step further: help others avoid making the same mistake you did. If you were a victim, reach out to other victims, and teach others how to avoid the wrongdoing that you faced. Make the end of your relationship with that person a turning point in your life. Start moving in a new direction.
1. Define your loose ends. What is it that lingers in you that prevents you from moving on? What residual emotions are still tying you to this person? Usually it's some form of anger or guilt - anger over what a person did to you, and you don't feel they were held accountable to it, or guilt over what you did (or didn't do) to (or for) someone else, and your resulting sense of regret.
2. Forgive. The fastest way to free yourself from an enemy and all associated negativity is to forgive. Untie the bindings and loose yourself from that person's ugliness. Your hatred has tied you to the person responsible for your pain. Your forgiveness enables you to start walking away from him or her and the pain. When your enemy and his or her evil actions come to mind, send him or her a blessing. Hope the best for him or her. The first 15 - or 150 - times you try this, the "blessing" may feel contrived, empty, and even hypocritical but keep trying. Eventually, it will become a new habit and soon thereafter, the anger and pain that has burned in your heart will evaporate.
3. Apologize. If you feel guilt or shame, if you are the one who needs forgiveness, then apologize. But it's not as simple as saying or thinking "I'm sorry." Grab a pen and paper and write a full-blown apology, keeping the following in mind:
* There is no excuse. Do not try to think of or offer one. An apology with an excuse is not an apology. Take full responsibility for what you did.
* Make it a point to avoid using the word "but". ("I am sorry, but..." means "I am not sorry.")
* Do not say "I'm sorry you feel that way" or "I'm sorry if you were offended" --it makes it seem like you are blaming the other person for feeling a certain way, and is not a real apology.
* Think about what caused you to make the offense. Find the underlying problem, describe it to the person (as an explanation, not an excuse), and tell them what you intend to do to rectify that problem so that you can avoid this mistake in the future.
4. Have a symbolic ceremony. People still hold funerals for the deceased whose bodies were never found, and you can still have a formal way to say goodbye to relationships that were never resolved. Gather all of the things that remind you of this person and burn them, or donate them to charity. Give a eulogy to the relationship, and say it out loud.
5. Write a story. Think back to when your relationship with this person began, and document it from beginning to end. This may be very painful, but it will give you a broader perspective. When you get to the final chapter, finish off on a positive note and write "The End". If you're writing in a notebook, close it forcefully, take a deep breath, and put it on a bookshelf. If you wrote on looseleaf papers, fold them, put them in an envelope, and seal it. You may choose to keep the story, or you may choose to shred it or burn it. The very act of documenting your relationship and closing the book, however, will help you find closure emotionally.
6. Begin a new chapter. You'll never be able to erase your memory of this person, but you can use the experience to better yourself and to help others. If you wronged someone, resolve never to make the same mistake again, and take it a step further: help others avoid making the same mistake you did. If you were a victim, reach out to other victims, and teach others how to avoid the wrongdoing that you faced. Make the end of your relationship with that person a turning point in your life. Start moving in a new direction.
Monday, November 10, 2008
Dard Bhari Shayari, Sad Shayaris, dard bhare sher , Sad love poems in Hindi, Hindi Sad Shayaris, Sad Hindi Sher, Pain in love shayari
Hame To Apnone Luta,
Gero Me Kahan Dum Tha,
Jaha Meri Kasti Dubi,
Waha Pani Kam Tha.
Jindgi Ka Mela Tha Janha Her Koi Apna Tha
Per Na Jaane Kis Ki Kami Thi
Chalte Chalte Ranho Me Tum Jo Mil Gaye
Har Kami Puri Ho Gayee
Aisa Laga Jaise Koi Khoi Hui
Cheez Hame Mil Gaye
Khone Ka Gham To Malum Nahi Tha
Per Pane Ki Khusi Mehsus Huyi
Khuda Na Khasta Bichhadna Bhi Pade
Too Hame Intzar Rahega Tumhara
Kayamat Tak Kayamat Par Bhi Tum Na Ayee
To Bhi Koi Shikva Nahi Hame Tum Se
Aise Aana Mayyat Pe Meri
Jaise Shadi Karne Aayee Ho Hamse
Kuch Tohfa Dena Chaho To Apne
Sare Gham Ka Fasana Chhod Jana Mere Pass
Aasu Ka Waha Koi Kaam Nahi Jaha Rehta Ho Yaar Mera
Aana Bhi Ho To Banke Khusi Aana Sath Tum Yar Ke Mere
Aaj Ek Faisla Mere Naam Kar Gaye
Meri Jinndgi Ki Tanha Shaam Kar Gaye
De Gaye Kasam Hame Bhulane Ka Khud Ko
Aur Chupe Ansuo Ko Sare Aam Kar Gaye
Tohfa Diya Hame Tanha Raton Ka
Aur Jahkmo Se Hame Tamam Kar Gaye
Kahte Hai Ye Akhiri Din Hai Apni Mulakat Ka
Aur Bhul Ja Tu Hamko Ye Paigam De Gaye
Aaj Ye Faisla Mere Naam Kar Gaye
Meri Jindgi Ki Har Tanha Saam Kar Gaye
Ankho Me Rah Ke Jo Hasate The Har Pal
Aaj Hoton Pe Dard Bhara Jaam De Gaye
Chod diya hamara sath to koi gam nahi.
Bhul jayenge aap hume, bhulne wale hum nahi...
Aapse mulakat na ho pai to koi baat nahi, aapki ek yaad mulakat se kum nahi
Gero Me Kahan Dum Tha,
Jaha Meri Kasti Dubi,
Waha Pani Kam Tha.
Jindgi Ka Mela Tha Janha Her Koi Apna Tha
Per Na Jaane Kis Ki Kami Thi
Chalte Chalte Ranho Me Tum Jo Mil Gaye
Har Kami Puri Ho Gayee
Aisa Laga Jaise Koi Khoi Hui
Cheez Hame Mil Gaye
Khone Ka Gham To Malum Nahi Tha
Per Pane Ki Khusi Mehsus Huyi
Khuda Na Khasta Bichhadna Bhi Pade
Too Hame Intzar Rahega Tumhara
Kayamat Tak Kayamat Par Bhi Tum Na Ayee
To Bhi Koi Shikva Nahi Hame Tum Se
Aise Aana Mayyat Pe Meri
Jaise Shadi Karne Aayee Ho Hamse
Kuch Tohfa Dena Chaho To Apne
Sare Gham Ka Fasana Chhod Jana Mere Pass
Aasu Ka Waha Koi Kaam Nahi Jaha Rehta Ho Yaar Mera
Aana Bhi Ho To Banke Khusi Aana Sath Tum Yar Ke Mere
Aaj Ek Faisla Mere Naam Kar Gaye
Meri Jinndgi Ki Tanha Shaam Kar Gaye
De Gaye Kasam Hame Bhulane Ka Khud Ko
Aur Chupe Ansuo Ko Sare Aam Kar Gaye
Tohfa Diya Hame Tanha Raton Ka
Aur Jahkmo Se Hame Tamam Kar Gaye
Kahte Hai Ye Akhiri Din Hai Apni Mulakat Ka
Aur Bhul Ja Tu Hamko Ye Paigam De Gaye
Aaj Ye Faisla Mere Naam Kar Gaye
Meri Jindgi Ki Har Tanha Saam Kar Gaye
Ankho Me Rah Ke Jo Hasate The Har Pal
Aaj Hoton Pe Dard Bhara Jaam De Gaye
Chod diya hamara sath to koi gam nahi.
Bhul jayenge aap hume, bhulne wale hum nahi...
Aapse mulakat na ho pai to koi baat nahi, aapki ek yaad mulakat se kum nahi
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