Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Safe dating tips, safe dating guide, safe dating advices

Public places: There are some things that are best kept out of the public eye but your first date isn't one of them. For first meetings, always meet in public and populated places like busy parks and cafes, restaurants or bars. You may even want to arrange.

Use your own mode of transportation: Always use your own form of transport. Whether is your own car, public transport or with friends. If you are going to take your own car make sure you have plenty of fuel in the tank.

Use these meeting guidelines: For your first few dates at least, or until you feel certain and safe, never have your date pick you up from your house. This person may be a dreamboat online but when it comes to personal safety it's best to play it safe until you know for sure. Always arrange to meet at the agreed location in an open public and populated place.

Don’t trust a man: As much as we don't like to say it the truth is that not every one is honest out there in the world of dating. No matter how amazing your prince charming has appeared so far take your time to form an accurate appraisal and never let your guard down on a first date.

Use your intuition: If your stomach is telling you something isn't right from the beginning when you meet someone always is prepared to excuse your self. Simply be honest and apologize if you have wasted their time but say that something just doesn't feel right let them know you have to leave and then do so.

The second date: If your first date does go well and you both want to see each other again still keep your address information private. Arrange to meet some where again, as set out in points 1 and 2, and make your way there under your transportation.

Tell you're friends: Let your friends or family know what you are up to where you're going and with whom. It also a great idea to arrange to check in with them during the date and even to arrange to meet up with them afterwards at a pre arranged time and place.

As for your digits: If he wants your phone number and you are comfortable giving it out it's a good idea just to stick with your mobile phone and not your home number at this stage.

Stay sharp and aware: Even if you are getting on like a house on fire and you're ready to pop some corks in your own mind stay calm and sensible. Always keep your head and that mobile phone on full charge.


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